This week on my YouTube channel Yoga with Haunani I shared the Metta Meditation, also known as the Loving Kindness Meditation. While I do not know the whole history of this meditation, I do know it works. I can’t even remember who I learned it from or where I was when this meditation practice was taught to me. All I know is that it stuck with me and I have been using it for several years. This was my go-to meditation practice when I taught yoga to Marines and Sailors at the Naval Hospital. One of my favorite memories of sharing this meditation is having a very young Marine who was clearly upset before class, finish this meditation, open his eyes and say out loud as he was gently nodding his head, “damn, that really worked.”
In many ways this meditation practice is really a blessing. You bless yourself, another, your community or family, and then all beings everywhere. It’s a simple practice, easy to follow, and effective. I’m writing the words out in this blog so you can follow along or print it out as needed until you have it memorized.
When repeating the phrases you can say it out loud, whisper, or repeat them silently to yourself. A longer version of this meditation is to say the four lines out loud, then repeat at a whisper, and then silently to yourself. Each time you say a line, take a moment to breathe in the statement and just witness what arises.
Prepping for the meditation:
- Print a copy of the Metta Meditation.
- Find a comfortable place to sit for this meditation
- Remove yourself from distractions (i.e. phones, computers, electronics)
- Connect with your breath
- Give yourself permission to let go of your day, or your plans, to just focus on the practice
The first round of the meditation is directed at yourself. This comes back to the idea that you must take care of yourself before you can truly care for another. Or, you must love yourself before you can truly love another. The first round is for you to reconnect with your heart.
MAY I BE HAPPY.
MAY I BE WELL.
MAY I BE SAFE.
MAY I BE PEACEFUL AND AT EASE.
The second round is dedicated to another. At first, I recommend you choose someone who you are grateful for, who cares for you, is a mentor, or is an inspiration in your life. With them in mind and in your heart, repeat:
MAY YOU BE HAPPY.
MAY YOU BE WELL.
MAY YOU BE SAFE.
MAY YOU BE PEACEFUL AND AT EASE.
Remember to give yourself time to breathe in each statement.
The third round is dedicated to your family (blood or soul), your community, or a group of people you entrust. Keeping them in mind, repeat:
MAY WE ALL BE HAPPY.
MAY WE ALL BE WELL.
MAY WE ALL BE SAFE.
MAY WE ALL BE PEACEFUL AND AT EASE.
The final round is dedicated to all beings everywhere. You might imagine the World, a sea of people, or a symbol or concept that weaves us all together. Keeping this in mind, repeat:
MAY ALL BEINGS BE HAPPY.
MAY ALL BEINGS BE WELL.
MAY ALL BEINGS BE SAFE.
MAY ALL BEINGS BE PEACEFUL AND AT EASE.
Take time at the end of the practice to sit and be mindful. Notice how you feel at the end of the practice compared to at the beginning.
When you become familiar with this practice you can also use it as a powerful healing tool. In the second and third rounds, you can bring to mind someone or group of people who has hurt you, made you angry, frustrated, or upset. By keeping that person or group in mind, you can rebuild a sense of oneness or connection between the frayed or fraying relationship. Using the Metta meditation in this way may help to soften the hard edges of emotions and feelings you once had toward that person or group of people.
As in all meditation practices, allow yourself to be present and witness what arises. Try to avoid judging your thoughts or having expectations of how you’re suppose to feel or be during and after this practice. The Metta Meditation is powerful in that it allows the heart’s true nature to arise and release what it has been harboring at the conscious and unconscious levels.
Be kind to yourself and just allow this words to help you reconnect with yourself, someone you love, your community, and the World.